look. not everyone was “born this way.”
some people’s identity changed as a result of trauma. some people’s sexual orientation changed drastically as a result of Something.
that doesn’t make their identity less fucking valid.
not everyone has “always been like this.”
for some people, things did happen that changed them into who they are now. their identity is still real!!!!!! it’s still valid!!!!
some people had things happening to them that changed which genders they were able to be attracted to!!!!
some people had things done to them that changed their ability to be attracted to anyone, full stop. support them.
